Older men are often intrigued by the prospect of dating a younger woman and it's easy to understand why. A younger woman may be more excited about life, may be better looking, two features an older man could find enticing.
Thoughts of dating a younger woman shouldn't cause any apprehensions. Some common beliefs need to be eliminated:
Myth #1 - Young women seek to date only men their own age.
Fact - Older gentlemen, with their maturity and experience, come across as very sexy to young women. Showing the vigor of being in control, accompanied by the calmness maturity it affords, is the main front needed here.
Being obnoxious, loud, petty, all of these things a young woman can find in the school boys already around her. She knows she can do better.
You've been around the block a few times. You've got your material rewards. You can offer her that calmness and sureness of presence only maturity can provide.
Myth #2 - Age difference is the main problem when dating a younger woman.
Fact - If age difference becomes an issue, it's because you allowed it. We already know why she's around, she wants maturity. Worries about the relationship as being not appropriate kind of dispels the very traits she's looking for - maturity and self-confidence.
Relax. Worries about such are worthless. See what happens. What is love anyway? Who knows? Whatever it is, it happens, and age can enhance it.
Myth #3 - She's looking for Daddy Bigbucks.
Fact - Many people wrinkle their noses in a knowing fashion when they see a younger woman on the arm of a man. The truth be known, that young woman usually has a thousand things other than money on her mind. The young woman is looking for a stable, comfortable environment. Not one where her boyfriend ends up passing out on the beach after one too many brewskies.
Don't worry that others may nod knowingly if you pick up the dinner tab. Sure, it's the 21st century and women have been liberated, but so what. She may offer to pick up the bill as she has with guys her own age - the starving students and artists. But remember, you're so much more to her than that.
She doesn't want you to become a sugar daddy, so don't. But you can pick up the tab when you see fit.
It's a fact, dating a younger woman can boost a fellow's self-confidence, bring back a rush of youth; so go for it if it affords itself. Your life is in your hands, not in those of society, or stereotypes, or silly notions. Mold it as you see best. You only go around once, as they say; if that go round involves a younger woman, grab the brass ring.
Thoughts of dating a younger woman shouldn't cause any apprehensions. Some common beliefs need to be eliminated:
Myth #1 - Young women seek to date only men their own age.
Fact - Older gentlemen, with their maturity and experience, come across as very sexy to young women. Showing the vigor of being in control, accompanied by the calmness maturity it affords, is the main front needed here.
Being obnoxious, loud, petty, all of these things a young woman can find in the school boys already around her. She knows she can do better.
You've been around the block a few times. You've got your material rewards. You can offer her that calmness and sureness of presence only maturity can provide.
Myth #2 - Age difference is the main problem when dating a younger woman.
Fact - If age difference becomes an issue, it's because you allowed it. We already know why she's around, she wants maturity. Worries about the relationship as being not appropriate kind of dispels the very traits she's looking for - maturity and self-confidence.
Relax. Worries about such are worthless. See what happens. What is love anyway? Who knows? Whatever it is, it happens, and age can enhance it.
Myth #3 - She's looking for Daddy Bigbucks.
Fact - Many people wrinkle their noses in a knowing fashion when they see a younger woman on the arm of a man. The truth be known, that young woman usually has a thousand things other than money on her mind. The young woman is looking for a stable, comfortable environment. Not one where her boyfriend ends up passing out on the beach after one too many brewskies.
Don't worry that others may nod knowingly if you pick up the dinner tab. Sure, it's the 21st century and women have been liberated, but so what. She may offer to pick up the bill as she has with guys her own age - the starving students and artists. But remember, you're so much more to her than that.
She doesn't want you to become a sugar daddy, so don't. But you can pick up the tab when you see fit.
It's a fact, dating a younger woman can boost a fellow's self-confidence, bring back a rush of youth; so go for it if it affords itself. Your life is in your hands, not in those of society, or stereotypes, or silly notions. Mold it as you see best. You only go around once, as they say; if that go round involves a younger woman, grab the brass ring.
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