It takes time to establish and nurture a relationship between a man and a woman. When looking for a potential boyfriend or husband, a woman already has a set of characteristics in mind, a checklist of sorts, when meeting guys. Everything starts with crossing out items in this checklist, which may be personality traits, professional background, behavior, and many other things.
Take a good look at yourself. What's your best traits? What don't you like about yourself? Are you the shy type who's an incurable romantic? Are you the tough guy, alpha male type? What impression do you want to leave on your first date? There's more to first dates than thinking about what to wear or where to take her, but this doesn't mean that you have to be the perfect guy for her. Know yourself so you come across as a self-assured, confident guy.
Sometimes, a connection is all that it takes. It doesn't matter if you're eating in a swanky restaurant, or if you're having gourmet food. If you manage to establish a rapport and your date feels she's connected with you, then half the battle's done. But creating that rapport entails a little effort.
You want to get to know her well, and you've probably got a lot of questions in mind. After all, the reason why you asked her out is because you felt attracted to her. Get a good conversation going, ask her about her job, hobbies and family, but don't bombard her with questions one after the other. Get her to warm up to you. Get her to talk at her own pace too. You wouldn't want to come off at too curious or inquisitive.
Listen to her. Focus your attention on your date. Don't go wandering your gaze to other women in your date place. It's impolite and rude behavior. Remember, you're the one who asked her out because you're attracted to her. Make her feel she's the only woman in the room for you.
Of course, it helps if you're in a place when you can talk and hear each other clearly. If you take her to a club or a concert then you wouldn't be able get a decent word it. Find a corner table in a cafe or restaurant, or sit on a bench in a park for that relaxing chitchat and get to know her better.
Show her you remember your gentlemanly ways. Gestures such as opening doors for her or holding her bag won't go unappreciated. You'd be surprised how much women like these small gestures. You're guaranteed to win points with her if you flex your charming, polite ways of treating a lady.
When you do all these things, you're bound to have a great date night. Your main objective is to get to know her better, but that shouldn't get in the way of having a great, relaxing time in each other's company.
Take a good look at yourself. What's your best traits? What don't you like about yourself? Are you the shy type who's an incurable romantic? Are you the tough guy, alpha male type? What impression do you want to leave on your first date? There's more to first dates than thinking about what to wear or where to take her, but this doesn't mean that you have to be the perfect guy for her. Know yourself so you come across as a self-assured, confident guy.
Sometimes, a connection is all that it takes. It doesn't matter if you're eating in a swanky restaurant, or if you're having gourmet food. If you manage to establish a rapport and your date feels she's connected with you, then half the battle's done. But creating that rapport entails a little effort.
You want to get to know her well, and you've probably got a lot of questions in mind. After all, the reason why you asked her out is because you felt attracted to her. Get a good conversation going, ask her about her job, hobbies and family, but don't bombard her with questions one after the other. Get her to warm up to you. Get her to talk at her own pace too. You wouldn't want to come off at too curious or inquisitive.
Listen to her. Focus your attention on your date. Don't go wandering your gaze to other women in your date place. It's impolite and rude behavior. Remember, you're the one who asked her out because you're attracted to her. Make her feel she's the only woman in the room for you.
Of course, it helps if you're in a place when you can talk and hear each other clearly. If you take her to a club or a concert then you wouldn't be able get a decent word it. Find a corner table in a cafe or restaurant, or sit on a bench in a park for that relaxing chitchat and get to know her better.
Show her you remember your gentlemanly ways. Gestures such as opening doors for her or holding her bag won't go unappreciated. You'd be surprised how much women like these small gestures. You're guaranteed to win points with her if you flex your charming, polite ways of treating a lady.
When you do all these things, you're bound to have a great date night. Your main objective is to get to know her better, but that shouldn't get in the way of having a great, relaxing time in each other's company.
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