I studied seduction by way of the art of reading and reacting. I by no means locked-in to a bootcamp or secured private training (though, I maintain it would've saved me a ton of time), but I did what I've performed with everything else, I bought a bunch of books and read them, applying them to the idea of social interaction.
Beginning with the Game by Neil Strauss, an compendium we are all familiar with, my social experience were mostly affected and refined by my individual beliefs. As I say, quite regularly, pickup ought to be the icing on a cake of self-worth, powerful morals and personal betterment, not the other way about. For those of you wondering, these are the top five books that influenced the growth of my character to produce the strongest congruence with the expertise I was learning.
In plain talk; All the routines and gambits and games and lines you use are well and good, but only if you know the best way to be the person those things are, supposedly, representing. These are the books that helped me become that individual.
1) Atlas Shrugged - Ayn Rand: One of the most influential women in my life introduced this book to me. Now known as the bible of the Objectivist movement, this book was America's introduction to post-war thought and a book I always recommend to people that have a problem being themselves and doing the things that they think are important to them, regardless of whether everyone else agrees, or not.
2) Way of the Peaceful Warrior - Dan Millman: I discovered this book around 15 years old, when I was dealing with general teen angst, and recognized that it was incredibly thought-provoking. We as men have the great gift of allowing logic to override our emotions. We can frequently "logic ourselves" out of being upset (i.e. "Well, there's no sense in worrying about that, anymore") and this was the first piece of literature that really introduced and contextualized these abilities. P.s. Don't bother with the movie.
3) The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida: Continuing with the "Way of" theme, this book is a brilliant exposition on male and female energies and how they relate to each other. This book has an incredible ability to explain the differences between man and woman's ethereal interactions without getting too hippy-dippy. Included among the little knowledge-gems are concepts like "Women learn through encouragement, men learn through challenge."
four) Lolita - Vladimir Nabokov: The book that taught me the beauty of seduction and whirlwind romance. Initially the book was dismissed as dirty pornography, the novel itself is a testament to the fortitude of a man's desires plus a ideal representation of what occurs when a single is so thoroughly flooded with amorous thoughts. Really should you are able to get past the total in-love-with-a-12-year-old situation, the book is gorgeous.
5) History of My Life - Giacomo Casanova: We, as professional seducers, are so often compared to Casanova and often long to be on his level, but what guys don't know about Giacomo Casanova is his depth of character, his vast resume of accomplishments and his willingness to take risks which, ultimately, gained him both his abilities with women and the fame they gave him. The book begins with one of my most favorite quotes that has influenced me to this day. I leave you with it.
"I begin by declaring to my reader that, through everything good or bad that I have done throughout my life, I am certain that I have earned due approbation or reproof, and that hence I must consider myself a free man." -History of Jacques Casanova de Seingalt, Venetian, written by himself at Dux in Bohemia.
Beginning with the Game by Neil Strauss, an compendium we are all familiar with, my social experience were mostly affected and refined by my individual beliefs. As I say, quite regularly, pickup ought to be the icing on a cake of self-worth, powerful morals and personal betterment, not the other way about. For those of you wondering, these are the top five books that influenced the growth of my character to produce the strongest congruence with the expertise I was learning.
In plain talk; All the routines and gambits and games and lines you use are well and good, but only if you know the best way to be the person those things are, supposedly, representing. These are the books that helped me become that individual.
1) Atlas Shrugged - Ayn Rand: One of the most influential women in my life introduced this book to me. Now known as the bible of the Objectivist movement, this book was America's introduction to post-war thought and a book I always recommend to people that have a problem being themselves and doing the things that they think are important to them, regardless of whether everyone else agrees, or not.
2) Way of the Peaceful Warrior - Dan Millman: I discovered this book around 15 years old, when I was dealing with general teen angst, and recognized that it was incredibly thought-provoking. We as men have the great gift of allowing logic to override our emotions. We can frequently "logic ourselves" out of being upset (i.e. "Well, there's no sense in worrying about that, anymore") and this was the first piece of literature that really introduced and contextualized these abilities. P.s. Don't bother with the movie.
3) The Way of the Superior Man - David Deida: Continuing with the "Way of" theme, this book is a brilliant exposition on male and female energies and how they relate to each other. This book has an incredible ability to explain the differences between man and woman's ethereal interactions without getting too hippy-dippy. Included among the little knowledge-gems are concepts like "Women learn through encouragement, men learn through challenge."
four) Lolita - Vladimir Nabokov: The book that taught me the beauty of seduction and whirlwind romance. Initially the book was dismissed as dirty pornography, the novel itself is a testament to the fortitude of a man's desires plus a ideal representation of what occurs when a single is so thoroughly flooded with amorous thoughts. Really should you are able to get past the total in-love-with-a-12-year-old situation, the book is gorgeous.
5) History of My Life - Giacomo Casanova: We, as professional seducers, are so often compared to Casanova and often long to be on his level, but what guys don't know about Giacomo Casanova is his depth of character, his vast resume of accomplishments and his willingness to take risks which, ultimately, gained him both his abilities with women and the fame they gave him. The book begins with one of my most favorite quotes that has influenced me to this day. I leave you with it.
"I begin by declaring to my reader that, through everything good or bad that I have done throughout my life, I am certain that I have earned due approbation or reproof, and that hence I must consider myself a free man." -History of Jacques Casanova de Seingalt, Venetian, written by himself at Dux in Bohemia.
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