Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You cant successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girls not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?
Too many times men just go at it and end up freaking the girl out. A too aggressive attempt to physical closeness will not fair well with girls.
Other men decide they dont want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact " doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that hes simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so whats the solution to this awkward problem?
There are a few rules to follow so that you don't appear too aggressive for your own good. The idea is to know the boundaries of most girls while projecting that you are a confident man who is genuinely interested with girls. With these rules, you can get away with a relaxed physical contact. Here is how to proceed.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.
By touching the outside of her arms, you are merely being casual and you are not crossing the boundary towards over aggressiveness. Tapping or touching the outside of her arms will be effective in giving a clear signal that you are fond of her and you are interested--nothing more. Do this and see the results.
2. Once youve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, its important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport youve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called Stealth Tactility to do this.
What stealth tactility involves is some degree of casual physical contact, which is disguised, so that you get away with it while heightening your bond with each other. Like when both of you are in a bar, and she asks for directions, you can easily put your hand on her shoulder and keeping her body close to yours, while you show her the way.
3. Last but not least, is to end a conversation with a kiss or a hug. Ending it this way will ensure a more lasting impression as you bid each other farewell. When you finally have to leave, why not give her a casual kiss on the cheek?
It is indeed an accomplishment already if you have secured for yourself a second date. True, you can easily rest on your laurels and wait for that second event. But to really leave a lasting mark on her mind, play some psychology a little. You can do this by leaving her with a sweet kiss, or a warm hug. Doing this will plant subconscious thoughts inside her mind. She will definitely keep thinking about you until you meet again for that second date.
Too many times men just go at it and end up freaking the girl out. A too aggressive attempt to physical closeness will not fair well with girls.
Other men decide they dont want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact " doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that hes simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so whats the solution to this awkward problem?
There are a few rules to follow so that you don't appear too aggressive for your own good. The idea is to know the boundaries of most girls while projecting that you are a confident man who is genuinely interested with girls. With these rules, you can get away with a relaxed physical contact. Here is how to proceed.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.
By touching the outside of her arms, you are merely being casual and you are not crossing the boundary towards over aggressiveness. Tapping or touching the outside of her arms will be effective in giving a clear signal that you are fond of her and you are interested--nothing more. Do this and see the results.
2. Once youve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, its important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport youve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called Stealth Tactility to do this.
What stealth tactility involves is some degree of casual physical contact, which is disguised, so that you get away with it while heightening your bond with each other. Like when both of you are in a bar, and she asks for directions, you can easily put your hand on her shoulder and keeping her body close to yours, while you show her the way.
3. Last but not least, is to end a conversation with a kiss or a hug. Ending it this way will ensure a more lasting impression as you bid each other farewell. When you finally have to leave, why not give her a casual kiss on the cheek?
It is indeed an accomplishment already if you have secured for yourself a second date. True, you can easily rest on your laurels and wait for that second event. But to really leave a lasting mark on her mind, play some psychology a little. You can do this by leaving her with a sweet kiss, or a warm hug. Doing this will plant subconscious thoughts inside her mind. She will definitely keep thinking about you until you meet again for that second date.
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