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The Ingredient For A Successful Date Is

By Joseph Matthews


When you consider dating a woman, more than likely you consider dinner and a movie, right?

Going out and doing things with a woman while you get to know one another is dating.

Well, what if I told you that you had the completely WRONG idea about dating?

Here you will find some of the more commonplace mistakes men make while dating a woman.

Mistake #1: Dates are only to make a good impression.

Many men feel they have to prove themselves while on a date, so the woman is attracted to them. Many may take a woman out to expensive places while showing her a good time; while they go on to build himself up as important by bragging.

Mistake #2: Guys think they can buy their way into a woman's heart.

This is not true and is a very bad idea, since many women are not concerned about the amount of money you spend on a date. There is no amount of money or any expensive item you can buy that will get a woman interested in you if there is no mutual attraction.

Mistake #3: Activities Mean Nothing!

Just the sheer act of going out to places with somebody doesn't mean as much as you think it does. If you do the typical "dinner and a movie" thing, that won't necessarily get the girl to like you. Spending time together does not always equate to romantic interest.

Mistake #4: Guys can become BORING!

A date with no spark of chemistry is boring. Although many men become nervous while on dates, they often interrupt themselves by becoming boring. They often talk about their routines while displaying little to none of their distinct personality. This is going through the motions with hopes of not messing things up.

What does dating a woman mean?

The answer is simple; dating is a means of encouraging and building comfort, attraction and emotional connections.

Where you go and the amounts of money you spend are not important, what is important is your ability to connect with the woman you are dating and positively encouraging the way she feels about you.

This is the key to why many men can go on a cheap date with a woman, while sweeping her off her feet, while other men may overspend on creative dating and get absolutely nowhere with the woman.

You should completely focus on how you can increase your emotional connection with the woman you date.

You should be open to talking about your shared passions and interests, while trying to figure out what her hopes and dreams may be.

Take care to keep away from boring questions that involve work rather you might consider rephrasing your questions while adding interesting fun while on a date. As an example, you may ask her, If you were not held back by the laws of time and space and could do anything, what would you do.

Above all, you should just have fun!

Crack jokes - even if they're not good. Have fun. Steer the conversation toward subjects she finds interesting. Be curious about who she is.

Above all, do not be to shy to bring up romance.

Too many guys are afraid to even broach the topic of sex while on a date. But you have to build the sexual tension to intensify the attraction.

Joke about sex. Flirt with her. Be a little wicked. Girls like this, and if you DON'T do it, you won't be able to build enough attraction to take things to the next level.




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