We will begin with a question.
Have you ever met a girl you liked, and despite your best efforts, you got stuck in the "lets just be friends" category?
Well, there is a reason that happened!
Since flirting is a vital element in the process of attraction and you do not do it correctly, or even worse, not at all, you may be leaving your opportunity to be with the woman up to chance.
You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her. Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.
See, there's an art to flirting with a woman. Flirting is all about communicating in the girl, without coming right out and SAYING it.
This is called "mixed signals." Your words communicate something different than your actions are communicating.
Here are some common mistakes most guys make when flirting with girls:
MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious
Some men find it overwhelming when they feel attraction to a woman and then spit it all out at once letting her know how they feel. This type of presentation of information places the woman at a disadvantage of deciding what she feels for the man.
You must lay the proper groundwork ahead of time, so you can avoid rejection.
MISTAKE #2: They Aren't Obvious Enough!
If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.
MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions
A great deal of flirting has to do with what you say, but the more powerful techniques are NON-VERBAL body language stuff. Little things like an eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a wicked smile can give new meaning to an otherwise benign remark.
MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously
Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.
If you're not having fun when flirting - and more importantly, if the girl isn't having fun - then you are doing something WRONG. I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what's the right way to start flirting?
Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.
Flirting is implication and it is fun and lighthearted.
Then, as you begin to flirt more and more, you can start getting a little more obvious about your interests, while never really crossing that line.
As you do this, you'll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build. And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright seduction. And that is when the real fun begins.
Have you ever met a girl you liked, and despite your best efforts, you got stuck in the "lets just be friends" category?
Well, there is a reason that happened!
Since flirting is a vital element in the process of attraction and you do not do it correctly, or even worse, not at all, you may be leaving your opportunity to be with the woman up to chance.
You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her. Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.
See, there's an art to flirting with a woman. Flirting is all about communicating in the girl, without coming right out and SAYING it.
This is called "mixed signals." Your words communicate something different than your actions are communicating.
Here are some common mistakes most guys make when flirting with girls:
MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious
Some men find it overwhelming when they feel attraction to a woman and then spit it all out at once letting her know how they feel. This type of presentation of information places the woman at a disadvantage of deciding what she feels for the man.
You must lay the proper groundwork ahead of time, so you can avoid rejection.
MISTAKE #2: They Aren't Obvious Enough!
If you make no effort to communicate your interest, yet think the woman will just know what you feel, when you do make a move it surprises the woman, because up until that point she has no idea of your interest.
MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions
A great deal of flirting has to do with what you say, but the more powerful techniques are NON-VERBAL body language stuff. Little things like an eyebrow raise, a head tilt, or a wicked smile can give new meaning to an otherwise benign remark.
MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously
Flirting is a lighthearted and fun practice, it is when serious romantic gestures begin that causes the sexual tension to break down.
If you're not having fun when flirting - and more importantly, if the girl isn't having fun - then you are doing something WRONG. I could list more mistakes like these, but I think you get the idea. So what's the right way to start flirting?
Use as much innuendo as you can while you are flirting, however the secret is in keeping it subtle.
Flirting is implication and it is fun and lighthearted.
Then, as you begin to flirt more and more, you can start getting a little more obvious about your interests, while never really crossing that line.
As you do this, you'll begin to notice how the attraction between you and the girl starts to build and build. And before you know it, that harmless flirting becomes an outright seduction. And that is when the real fun begins.
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