Going on your first date with a girl you really like can be very distressing. If coming up to her to ask her out (which must have taken you no more than five minutes) had already taken all of your courage, then how much more would a whole night of talking to her affect you? How do you make it a great, enjoyable night for both of you?
Improving your communication skills can help in making your date night something both of you will enjoy. Learn how to talk and listen. Watch out for body language as well. Body signals can tell you as much about a person as verbal conversation. Sometimes, a girl would want to make that connection with you right on the first meeting, but this is more of the exception than the rule. You can, however, make conversation so relaxing and enjoyable that it can almost pass for that magical rapport.
When talking to her, maintain eye contact. Constant gazing around the room could make you look distracted, inattentive, or worse, bored. Also, as a rule, never ogle at other women during your date. The objective of the night is to get to know her more. This is your chance (which can be your last, mind you), so pay close attention.
Now, if you want to get her to talk some more, or to warm up to you, try asking open-ended questions. Questions starting with 'what' and 'how' are more likely to encourage conversation as compared to yes-no questions. And while she shares some information about herself, listen attentively. Every good conversationalist is a good listener as well.
There's a myriad of topics you can choose from. Impress her with your expertise on topics close to your heart. Get updated on current issues so you can talk about what's going on in your side of the world. Music is always the logical choice for an ice-breaker, as music is the universal language.
Like in any getting-to-know-you conversation, talking about hobbies is often the most important and the most enjoyable part in a date. Try asking her what she usually does during her spare time. Be it on travel, photography or cooking, you'll almost always discover a common interest with her.
You could also ask her if she keeps a pet. When you discover that she has one, and assuming you have one too, then you're in for a lively conversation. People get really animated when talking about their beloved pets. If she doesn't have one, go ahead and ask her why. This would also help you to get to know her more.
Good conversation often makes for an enjoyable date night. And if both of you are lucky enough to discover a connection just through conversation, then fate might just make her a more permanent part of your life.
Improving your communication skills can help in making your date night something both of you will enjoy. Learn how to talk and listen. Watch out for body language as well. Body signals can tell you as much about a person as verbal conversation. Sometimes, a girl would want to make that connection with you right on the first meeting, but this is more of the exception than the rule. You can, however, make conversation so relaxing and enjoyable that it can almost pass for that magical rapport.
When talking to her, maintain eye contact. Constant gazing around the room could make you look distracted, inattentive, or worse, bored. Also, as a rule, never ogle at other women during your date. The objective of the night is to get to know her more. This is your chance (which can be your last, mind you), so pay close attention.
Now, if you want to get her to talk some more, or to warm up to you, try asking open-ended questions. Questions starting with 'what' and 'how' are more likely to encourage conversation as compared to yes-no questions. And while she shares some information about herself, listen attentively. Every good conversationalist is a good listener as well.
There's a myriad of topics you can choose from. Impress her with your expertise on topics close to your heart. Get updated on current issues so you can talk about what's going on in your side of the world. Music is always the logical choice for an ice-breaker, as music is the universal language.
Like in any getting-to-know-you conversation, talking about hobbies is often the most important and the most enjoyable part in a date. Try asking her what she usually does during her spare time. Be it on travel, photography or cooking, you'll almost always discover a common interest with her.
You could also ask her if she keeps a pet. When you discover that she has one, and assuming you have one too, then you're in for a lively conversation. People get really animated when talking about their beloved pets. If she doesn't have one, go ahead and ask her why. This would also help you to get to know her more.
Good conversation often makes for an enjoyable date night. And if both of you are lucky enough to discover a connection just through conversation, then fate might just make her a more permanent part of your life.
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