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Positive Attitude - Necessary To Find Your Man

By Ryan A. Swain


Some men may think that women don't have it hard when it comes to finding a mate. They believe that if a woman really wants a man all she has to do is put on some lipstick. This is far from the truth. Putting on a show may attract a man but a woman needs to be selective. The reality is good men aren't that easy to find.

This can cause problems either way. It can be an indication of a lack of self-esteem or other issues. If you're having trouble finding a lasting love, here's some information that may help.



Probably the best thing you can do for yourself is to adopt a positive attitude and look for someone who is also positive. Men are usually attracted to women who look at life with the glass half full. On the other hand, it is possible to get a date even if you have a bad attitude, but most likely it will be with another person who feels the same way about life. 



Once you adopt a positive attitude, you will enjoy a variety of benefits beyond an improved love life. It will likely make your life more pleasurable and others will want to be around you more. 


In your search for a guy, it doesn't hurt to utilize some age-old flirting techniques. I'm talking about eye contact, brushing your arm against his and licking your lips. Nothing too overt or vulgar.

Don't get drunk on your date and cross the line. Men won't respect you if they think they can have you easily. It's an old-fashioned way of looking things but that doesn't make it less true. So go ahead and flirt but do it the right way. It can be fun and ease tension during a date. Your date will know by your flirting that you like him and if he likes you it will make things more comfortable.

Most importantly, you have to get started. Don't think men will come to you. Begin an active search and don't be afraid to get turned down. It's all part of the process. If you let yourself be paralyzed by fear of failure you'll never find someone. 


Once you do take that first step, remember that few people meet their soul mates on the first date. It will take time and probably numerous bad dates before you find the right guy. Don't look at the bad dates as having failed, think of them as research. They let you know what you don't want in a guy. The right one will come along in time, just don't give up.







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