Your first kiss at the start of a new relationship is often a very anxious time. It can be very awkward, especially for those who haven't dated in a while.
While some of this anxiety is unjustified, how you go about kissing her is very important. That very first kiss forms a first impression of you as a sexual entity to your date.
How you go about getting her to kiss you is as important if not more so than the actual kiss itself. Women pick up on several cues at the intuitive level that make that first kiss either intensely romantic or a "let down".
Know that the first kiss is very important and is not merely something to get out of the way. Listed here are 3 tips about doing it the right way.
1.) Never ask for her permission.
Of course I'm not advocating kissing her just because you want to. You need to learn how to sense whether or not kissing her is what she wants without explicitly asking her. You have to know when the moment is right to act. When she is attracted to you and the air is filled with sexual tension, you should seize this opportunity to kiss her.
To ask for permission at this moment, lessens the romantic impact of that first kiss. This can make you seem weak. Many women want to be swept off their feet by a strong confident man who takes charge. Take charge of the moment.
2.) You should learn her signals of attraction.
Do you find that she is touching you in casual ways during conversation? Maybe she might find excuses for holding on to you such as when she is walking on slippery snow and uses you for support. She may have brushed her arm or hand up against yours.
Eye contact is equally important. Have you caught her making quick glances at you? Are you getting prolonged eye contact while conversing?
Do her eyes seem to take in the different parts of your face? If her eyes stare intently at your lips, she definitely finds you arousing. Does she lean in closely to you a lot?
Is she somewhat nervous in your presence? This is a good sign. She may even play with her hair when talking with you. Dilated pupils are also a very good sign.
3.) When you kiss, begin slowly.
Look into her eyes and at her mouth. Take her hand. If she doesn't pull away or resist, finish the kiss. You can also cradle her face in your hands or caress her hair as you start the kiss.
While some of this anxiety is unjustified, how you go about kissing her is very important. That very first kiss forms a first impression of you as a sexual entity to your date.
How you go about getting her to kiss you is as important if not more so than the actual kiss itself. Women pick up on several cues at the intuitive level that make that first kiss either intensely romantic or a "let down".
Know that the first kiss is very important and is not merely something to get out of the way. Listed here are 3 tips about doing it the right way.
1.) Never ask for her permission.
Of course I'm not advocating kissing her just because you want to. You need to learn how to sense whether or not kissing her is what she wants without explicitly asking her. You have to know when the moment is right to act. When she is attracted to you and the air is filled with sexual tension, you should seize this opportunity to kiss her.
To ask for permission at this moment, lessens the romantic impact of that first kiss. This can make you seem weak. Many women want to be swept off their feet by a strong confident man who takes charge. Take charge of the moment.
2.) You should learn her signals of attraction.
Do you find that she is touching you in casual ways during conversation? Maybe she might find excuses for holding on to you such as when she is walking on slippery snow and uses you for support. She may have brushed her arm or hand up against yours.
Eye contact is equally important. Have you caught her making quick glances at you? Are you getting prolonged eye contact while conversing?
Do her eyes seem to take in the different parts of your face? If her eyes stare intently at your lips, she definitely finds you arousing. Does she lean in closely to you a lot?
Is she somewhat nervous in your presence? This is a good sign. She may even play with her hair when talking with you. Dilated pupils are also a very good sign.
3.) When you kiss, begin slowly.
Look into her eyes and at her mouth. Take her hand. If she doesn't pull away or resist, finish the kiss. You can also cradle her face in your hands or caress her hair as you start the kiss.
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