Knowing how to approach women is a vital skill every man needs to know, because approaching women is the first step in creating a relationship with the girl of your dreams...
The way you approach a girl can make or break the rest of your pickup. Here are some tips for approaching women that will help ensure your success! Remember a situation where you were going to approach a girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she freaked out and simply rejected you?
It wasn't anything you were about to say, or even your intentions. She might have really liked you if you approached her in a different way. But once you freak out a girl, it's not easy to turn that situation around. The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.
This is all about coming in "under the radar." Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up on. Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly walking up to you begging for change, you'd get pretty sick of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick them up are no better than that - an annoyance.
However, approaching women is fun and easy if you know the RIGHT WAY to do it!
So let's talk about the right way to approach any woman...
First - YOU MUST ACT FAST.
You need to overcome your fear and approach quickly when the opportunity presents itself.
Secondly, know what you're going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don't have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her. So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in these situations is probably a good idea.
Now, when I use the term "pick up line," I don't mean the "Nice shirt, want to have sex?" type of line that'll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON-THREATENING!
A good pick up line is something that will start an innocent conversation with the girl you're approaching. Examples of a good line would be to ask her opinion on something and then continue the conversation by asking more questions about her opinion. An important tip you should be aware of is to always approach a woman at an angle instead of charging towards her like you're going to war! When you approach at an angle, it's much less confrontational and you're going to subconsciously put the woman more at ease than if you approached her head-on.
Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That's why it's so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you're talking to girls! It's natural to feel uncomfortable meeting attractive women, but remember - practice makes perfect! If you take the time to go out and practice meeting women, over time it will become easier and you'll be more comfortable with doing it.
Let me tell you - getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it). If you're worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you're doing is approaching women. You're not asking her out, you're not trying to get her into bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.
That's all! See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.
Finally, use a "time constraint" when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you've only got a minute to talk to her because you've got to get back to your friends or whatever you're doing.
Time constraints let the girl you're talking to know that you're not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will be a quick conversation. Because of this, she'll be more willing to engage in your talk. If the initial approach goes well and the conversation continues, she will eventually forget you said you can only talk for a "minute" and you can talk as long as you want. The whole point is just to get your "foot in the door."
Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.
The way you approach a girl can make or break the rest of your pickup. Here are some tips for approaching women that will help ensure your success! Remember a situation where you were going to approach a girl, and before you could even get a single word out, she freaked out and simply rejected you?
It wasn't anything you were about to say, or even your intentions. She might have really liked you if you approached her in a different way. But once you freak out a girl, it's not easy to turn that situation around. The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.
This is all about coming in "under the radar." Understand: Most women have trained themselves to just REJECT men outright when they sense they are being picked up on. Think about this: if you had homeless people constantly walking up to you begging for change, you'd get pretty sick of it, right? Well, to most women, guys who try and pick them up are no better than that - an annoyance.
However, approaching women is fun and easy if you know the RIGHT WAY to do it!
So let's talk about the right way to approach any woman...
First - YOU MUST ACT FAST.
You need to overcome your fear and approach quickly when the opportunity presents itself.
Secondly, know what you're going to start the conversation with BEFORE you approach the girl. This will make meeting women much easier because you don't have to spend time thinking of what to say before you feel comfortable walking up to meet her. So having a good pick-up line in your hip pocket to use in these situations is probably a good idea.
Now, when I use the term "pick up line," I don't mean the "Nice shirt, want to have sex?" type of line that'll get you slapped in the face. Remember, you need to be NON-THREATENING!
A good pick up line is something that will start an innocent conversation with the girl you're approaching. Examples of a good line would be to ask her opinion on something and then continue the conversation by asking more questions about her opinion. An important tip you should be aware of is to always approach a woman at an angle instead of charging towards her like you're going to war! When you approach at an angle, it's much less confrontational and you're going to subconsciously put the woman more at ease than if you approached her head-on.
Remember: great pick ups can only happen when the girl is comfortable with you. That's why it's so important for YOU to feel comfortable when you're talking to girls! It's natural to feel uncomfortable meeting attractive women, but remember - practice makes perfect! If you take the time to go out and practice meeting women, over time it will become easier and you'll be more comfortable with doing it.
Let me tell you - getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it). If you're worried about being rejected, just look at it as a game. The ONLY thing you're doing is approaching women. You're not asking her out, you're not trying to get her into bed, your only goal is to carry on some type of conversation.
That's all! See how many girls you can talk to in one night, and keep trying to beat your score.
Finally, use a "time constraint" when approaching women. This is as simple as telling her you've only got a minute to talk to her because you've got to get back to your friends or whatever you're doing.
Time constraints let the girl you're talking to know that you're not trying to monopolize her time, and that this will be a quick conversation. Because of this, she'll be more willing to engage in your talk. If the initial approach goes well and the conversation continues, she will eventually forget you said you can only talk for a "minute" and you can talk as long as you want. The whole point is just to get your "foot in the door."
Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.
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