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I wanted to share some information with you guys on how to get a girl's phone number and execute it correctly. I do a whole seminar on phone game and building social status. But for right now, I wanted to jump start you guys with some tips and techniques that will help you get solid phone numbers that really count and turn these numbers into much more than just getting that girl's number and her never picking up the phone.
For starters, you need to always be adding value to the conversation. Before you even get her number, you have to make her laugh, give her positive emotions, teach her a funny handshake, play a game with the group. Anything other than asking her questions about her life, something most guys do. You have to be in a "giving" mindset and not a "getting" mindset.
If she is answering questions about her then she is the one who is giving value and you are the one taking value. She will not respond well to guys who take value. You should be continually demonstrating that you are high value male who only has value to give and doesn't need to take. The next step is to tell her that you are adopting her as your new BFF and she should take your number and you then actually give her your number.
You have to get her used to you leading the conversation and teaching her new things about herself and the world around her. The average frustrated male will ask to get the girl's number. There are a few things you're doing wrong when you do that.
Firstly, you never ask, you should just tell her confidently what she should be doing. If you're assertive it will make her think that it is the polite thing to do and will make her feel like she isn't breaking any social rules. The next mistake is actually asking for the girl's number.
She certainly shouldn't ever feel like she is giving you something, or doing you some favor. It should feel like you are giving her a gift by giving her your phone number. You are very picky and selective of the women you give your number out to, and you thought she'd be cool enough to hang out with and you let her have it. That is the affirmation you need to have.
Now for the most important part. This is the thing that makes the woman think that there is no other agenda and that her number doesn't necessarily lead to sex or a boring phone call.
The reason why you will get the girl's number is because you have an event to invite her to. That is right guys, you're only getting her number because you want to invite her to your party, your BBQ, pool party, screening for a film, billiards night, etc. Whatever it is that you will be planning, that is what you will invite her to.
It really isn't important what type of event you have, what is important is that you actually have an event to invite her to. It shows her that you have a life, and social connections. Now the number has just become a bridge to the next meeting.
I watch guys do this wrong every single night. They'll be hanging out with the girl at the bar, and everything seems to going fine. Then that guy asks "so how about I get your number and we hang out some time". Meanwhile, that girl is thinking "but we're hanging out right now, so why does he really need my number". She thinks that she is giving money away to a bum just because he asked for it. You're intentions do not come across as genuine.
You need to explain to her why you are doing the steps you are doing. Next you need to get her to jump through a few small hoops and have her work to get your number. If she invests and complies with your tests then you can be sure that the number is solid and that she'll actually pick up your calls.
If she does, than I am almost 100 percent sure the phone number will turn into a second meet up and hanging out at other social gatherings together. I will usually tell her to do the following things so she can work to get my number, and if she is willing to work to get my number than she will most likely pick up my calls or answer my texts.
The outline looks like this.
A) Take down my number
B) Send me a text so I know it is you
C) You got to tell me a secret or something funny
D) That was funny; I'm going to text you a secret about me
E) Ok we're going to call this really dorky girl; she's sort of cute, let's see if she picks up. (Wait for her to pick up) What's up? It's Kosmo. That handsome Latino boy you have a huge school girl crush on. I wanted to get that first weird phone call out of the way, so when you call me tomorrow it won't be awkward. So let's get that out of the way now. (Stop talking and let that awkward silence set in, just look at her and she'll laugh)
F) If by chance she does not pick up. I listen to her voicemail and leave her a message. In the middle of leaving it I'll hand my phone to the girl and tell her to leave a silly message for my friend. (She doesn't realize it's her)
So these are some examples of what I like to do to make her work to get your number and testing her to see if she is willing to jump through your hoops.
I think that getting the phone number the right way when you initially meet a girl is a very big part of social dynamic science. Here is what the entire number close looks like. This is exactly what I did that ended up in some fun activities a few days later.
Example.
Kosmo: So what's your agenda next week? Me and my boys are going to Gaslight on Friday. My friend is throwing a birthday party on the roof. You should come so I can introduce you to a few characters and teach you some new dance moves. (I'm still in a giving mindset)
Ashley: That sounds fun. I have class all day but some of my friends wanted to go out somewhere.
Kosmo: Ok take my number; we're also throwing a BBQ Saturday. You have to try my burgers they are amazing, oh and my grandma taught me to make pork chops; we'll see how that goes.
Ashley: That's so cute. Okay, what is your number? And I want to see how good your burgers really are; because I think I could take you out in a heartbeat.
Kosmo: 000-000-0000 I never just give out my number to anybody, so shoot me a text so I know it's you when you call. Tell me a secret about you. And honestly, I think you are one of the coolest girls here so you should invite your friends to come also.
Ashley: I may bring a friend. You get my text yet?
Kosmo: No. Where is my phone?
Ashley: It's in your back pocket.
Kosmo: There it is! How did you know? You grabbed my ass without me catching you didn't you?
Ashley: When I grab your ass you'll know it ok?
Kosmo: I did get your secret. That's funny!
Ashley: Ok your turn.
Kosmo: I'll tell you my childhood nickname. I better rejoin my friends. But if I find out you told someone my secret I'm going to have to come back here and tickle you to death. I'll forward you the details for the parties Sunday.
(I give her a kiss on the cheek, and roll off. I usually come back and keep talking to her. If I don't have time, I will text her a couple more times to get her used to our phone conversations and our interactions.)
Alright guys, I hope you enjoyed this information. I have nothing but confidence that you will use my system to get the girl's number and it will get you real results really quick. Enjoy!
I wanted to share some information with you guys on how to get a girl's phone number and execute it correctly. I do a whole seminar on phone game and building social status. But for right now, I wanted to jump start you guys with some tips and techniques that will help you get solid phone numbers that really count and turn these numbers into much more than just getting that girl's number and her never picking up the phone.
For starters, you need to always be adding value to the conversation. Before you even get her number, you have to make her laugh, give her positive emotions, teach her a funny handshake, play a game with the group. Anything other than asking her questions about her life, something most guys do. You have to be in a "giving" mindset and not a "getting" mindset.
If she is answering questions about her then she is the one who is giving value and you are the one taking value. She will not respond well to guys who take value. You should be continually demonstrating that you are high value male who only has value to give and doesn't need to take. The next step is to tell her that you are adopting her as your new BFF and she should take your number and you then actually give her your number.
You have to get her used to you leading the conversation and teaching her new things about herself and the world around her. The average frustrated male will ask to get the girl's number. There are a few things you're doing wrong when you do that.
Firstly, you never ask, you should just tell her confidently what she should be doing. If you're assertive it will make her think that it is the polite thing to do and will make her feel like she isn't breaking any social rules. The next mistake is actually asking for the girl's number.
She certainly shouldn't ever feel like she is giving you something, or doing you some favor. It should feel like you are giving her a gift by giving her your phone number. You are very picky and selective of the women you give your number out to, and you thought she'd be cool enough to hang out with and you let her have it. That is the affirmation you need to have.
Now for the most important part. This is the thing that makes the woman think that there is no other agenda and that her number doesn't necessarily lead to sex or a boring phone call.
The reason why you will get the girl's number is because you have an event to invite her to. That is right guys, you're only getting her number because you want to invite her to your party, your BBQ, pool party, screening for a film, billiards night, etc. Whatever it is that you will be planning, that is what you will invite her to.
It really isn't important what type of event you have, what is important is that you actually have an event to invite her to. It shows her that you have a life, and social connections. Now the number has just become a bridge to the next meeting.
I watch guys do this wrong every single night. They'll be hanging out with the girl at the bar, and everything seems to going fine. Then that guy asks "so how about I get your number and we hang out some time". Meanwhile, that girl is thinking "but we're hanging out right now, so why does he really need my number". She thinks that she is giving money away to a bum just because he asked for it. You're intentions do not come across as genuine.
You need to explain to her why you are doing the steps you are doing. Next you need to get her to jump through a few small hoops and have her work to get your number. If she invests and complies with your tests then you can be sure that the number is solid and that she'll actually pick up your calls.
If she does, than I am almost 100 percent sure the phone number will turn into a second meet up and hanging out at other social gatherings together. I will usually tell her to do the following things so she can work to get my number, and if she is willing to work to get my number than she will most likely pick up my calls or answer my texts.
The outline looks like this.
A) Take down my number
B) Send me a text so I know it is you
C) You got to tell me a secret or something funny
D) That was funny; I'm going to text you a secret about me
E) Ok we're going to call this really dorky girl; she's sort of cute, let's see if she picks up. (Wait for her to pick up) What's up? It's Kosmo. That handsome Latino boy you have a huge school girl crush on. I wanted to get that first weird phone call out of the way, so when you call me tomorrow it won't be awkward. So let's get that out of the way now. (Stop talking and let that awkward silence set in, just look at her and she'll laugh)
F) If by chance she does not pick up. I listen to her voicemail and leave her a message. In the middle of leaving it I'll hand my phone to the girl and tell her to leave a silly message for my friend. (She doesn't realize it's her)
So these are some examples of what I like to do to make her work to get your number and testing her to see if she is willing to jump through your hoops.
I think that getting the phone number the right way when you initially meet a girl is a very big part of social dynamic science. Here is what the entire number close looks like. This is exactly what I did that ended up in some fun activities a few days later.
Example.
Kosmo: So what's your agenda next week? Me and my boys are going to Gaslight on Friday. My friend is throwing a birthday party on the roof. You should come so I can introduce you to a few characters and teach you some new dance moves. (I'm still in a giving mindset)
Ashley: That sounds fun. I have class all day but some of my friends wanted to go out somewhere.
Kosmo: Ok take my number; we're also throwing a BBQ Saturday. You have to try my burgers they are amazing, oh and my grandma taught me to make pork chops; we'll see how that goes.
Ashley: That's so cute. Okay, what is your number? And I want to see how good your burgers really are; because I think I could take you out in a heartbeat.
Kosmo: 000-000-0000 I never just give out my number to anybody, so shoot me a text so I know it's you when you call. Tell me a secret about you. And honestly, I think you are one of the coolest girls here so you should invite your friends to come also.
Ashley: I may bring a friend. You get my text yet?
Kosmo: No. Where is my phone?
Ashley: It's in your back pocket.
Kosmo: There it is! How did you know? You grabbed my ass without me catching you didn't you?
Ashley: When I grab your ass you'll know it ok?
Kosmo: I did get your secret. That's funny!
Ashley: Ok your turn.
Kosmo: I'll tell you my childhood nickname. I better rejoin my friends. But if I find out you told someone my secret I'm going to have to come back here and tickle you to death. I'll forward you the details for the parties Sunday.
(I give her a kiss on the cheek, and roll off. I usually come back and keep talking to her. If I don't have time, I will text her a couple more times to get her used to our phone conversations and our interactions.)
Alright guys, I hope you enjoyed this information. I have nothing but confidence that you will use my system to get the girl's number and it will get you real results really quick. Enjoy!
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