If your boyfriend breaks up with you, it will be a very agonizing experience. A break up is not an experience you want to happen. Usually, what happens next is you will want to call him up to convince him that both of you should be together. Don't do it. Begging or sounding clingy would just ruin your chances of ever getting back with him.
When you're ready, you should give him a call but there are certain rules you must follow in order to avoid sounding so desperate.
Lie low for a month. Use this time for healing and getting yourself out of that miserable state you're in. With you being like that, there's no way in hell he's ever going to want you back. Remember, you're just hurt; you want to believe that he's the only one who can make you happy. That's not true. There are other guys out there -- better than him -- so don't cry over spilled milk.
Within that one month, don't stay in your room because that will only make you sad and lonely. Try hanging out with your friends. As much as possible, go out and have fun. Find something you like to do and stick with it. During this time, you should be learning to live life without your ex around.
Every time you feel sad, just think what might happen if guys saw you in the state you're in. Guys prefer women who can stand up on their own. They like it when you are very confident in yourself. You will be 100% more attractive if you do not sound so needy.
A month has passed and you want to know if you are ready. If you think that you would not break down if you two saw each other, then that's one sign. If you see him and you don't get nervous, you should be happy as well. However, the most important thing that really confirms you're ready is when you don't mind if the two of you just become friends.
When you're ready, you should give him a call but there are certain rules you must follow in order to avoid sounding so desperate.
Lie low for a month. Use this time for healing and getting yourself out of that miserable state you're in. With you being like that, there's no way in hell he's ever going to want you back. Remember, you're just hurt; you want to believe that he's the only one who can make you happy. That's not true. There are other guys out there -- better than him -- so don't cry over spilled milk.
Within that one month, don't stay in your room because that will only make you sad and lonely. Try hanging out with your friends. As much as possible, go out and have fun. Find something you like to do and stick with it. During this time, you should be learning to live life without your ex around.
Every time you feel sad, just think what might happen if guys saw you in the state you're in. Guys prefer women who can stand up on their own. They like it when you are very confident in yourself. You will be 100% more attractive if you do not sound so needy.
A month has passed and you want to know if you are ready. If you think that you would not break down if you two saw each other, then that's one sign. If you see him and you don't get nervous, you should be happy as well. However, the most important thing that really confirms you're ready is when you don't mind if the two of you just become friends.
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