How To Handle Rejection - Lies And Deception False Profiles

Here is a forum post about people who lie on dating sites

posting false information on their profiles. It's what

I always say about how to handle rejection. You must

believe in yourself if you want to meet that special

someone.

Lying on your profile won't work. It just reveals a low self

and self doubt. And, no matter how good your intentions, it

always results in a backfire. Remember, your first

impression is a lasting one. And lying is absolutely the

stupid things to do to yourself.

For starters, this poster stated that this person claimed

profile claimed to be in their twenties, but was really in their thirties,

in their thirties, and lied about their job to seem more interesting,

and looked nothing like their picture

What would you do in this situation if you met someone in

person who turned out to be nothing like their profile?

Here are some very impressive replies. You need to check these

out.

One replier states that when confronted with a liar, there's

OK to say that you aren't happy with their false profile

get up to leave. Doesn't lying from the beginning, mean

will they not continue to lie to you all the time?

Another states that you should leave this person hanging

character immediately. That such a person can actually be

personally think this is a bit overboard, but they are right

that you shouldn't hang around. What kind of harm a person

harm such a person can do is not something you would want to

cause anyway.

Another replied that people who put lies on their profiles

know what they are doing, and won't stop even if you told

point it out. This is a good reply. One of the things I have

can't really trust people like this to come out, and

that you will learn not to trust. They don't want to be seen

for what they really are, because they believe you won't

what they will discover. You might say that they don't like

themselves. Again, low self esteem.

This next one is a really good reply, because this

person was amused by the superficial people who come forth

on these profiles. This one also believes they will never meet a

they want to be with won't happen anyway. This person, says

This replier, says that one person who showed up for a

and that another reeked of urine. I mean talk about crazy!

outrageous!

This next replier, as far as I'm concerned, went way too far

careful you meet people, but to be honest, it's really not

the end of the world either. This replier also says that its

best not to 'waste 8 seconds with a

should not 'stay 8 seconds with a

doesn't mean more than life you know? That you could be

involved with other things that's more productive. That

other things with your time that's more productive. That

Purple alert anyone?

Purple alert anyone?

I can agree with this replier saying that you should leave

with this one. You really are under no obligation to a

perpetual liar. But, this replier goes pretty far with words

to a liar. But, this replier goes on to use such words as

'hardware damaged', 'amoral', 'pathological', and 'morally

retarded'. And, the funny thing is that this replier keeps

OK dude, I got it. White man speak with forked tongue.

I Couldn't agree more. Now go smoke some hashish or something.

I can see that lying is something this guy takes too

Apparently lying is something this person takes very

the damn person to the guillotine. It's just that most people

who prefer to live their lives like this are people you

people who choose to live their lives like this are people I

can't really help, and move on. Nothing can be done about

the decisions people choose. You can only do something about

This next replier says that a person they met was actually

This next replier states that the person who showed up at a

also says that this person 'gave up on themselves.....

badly!' But, what grabs me about this reply is what grabs me

ruin!' But, what catches me about this reply is the same

about some of the other replies. And that is after meeting

met some of these phony people, they try to be 'polite' and

break off without hurting them. I mean, even though I really

don't like Simon Cowell of American Idol, I have to agree

the reality of the profession they've chosen.

to face the reality of their chosen profession.

And, sometimes you have to let people see the truth behind their

decisions. Now, I don't mean that you have to be a hard nosed

to put your foot down eventually, and let people like this

know where you stand with them. You don't want to come

across as a cold, frost giant, but you don't need the

lies, games, and headaches either.

What's your reply?