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Dating Advice For Men

By Chase Chandler

Most of the time, guys find dating as a challenge. Adding to it are the complexities of being a woman. Guys are sometimes unsure on how to please a girl, or do not know what she wants. This article aims to help guys rule out their anxieties when it comes to dating.

Nobody has absolute answers to questions about women. But this is fortunate instead, so as not to get rid of the alluring mystery that goes with being a woman.

Anyways, these dating tips for guys will assist you in getting the woman of your choice. Here, you will be taught the proper way to dress and to act during a date, among others.

You do things well and you will see yourself as part of a successful relationship with someone in the near future.

Regardless of you situation, whether a guy who has been single for years, never been on a date yet, or just come out from a broken relationship, you will be benefited with these common guidelines that work well in the dating arena.

As a rule, be presentable. No matter who she is or where you two are going, always be appropriate with your choice of clothing and footwear. Pick out the right cut and shade.

Stay Clean and Look Fresh

Apart from your wardrobe, personal hygiene is essential too, no doubt. Get yourself a nice hair cut. You may even take the extra mile and go to a salon for some professional help if you want. You may experiment a bit to see which look or hairstyle is best for you.

Professionals are readily available to assist you. Again, hygiene is overly important. Make it part of your daily routine to take a shower daily. Stay fresh each and every day.

Knight In Shining Armor

Read books about manners, chivalry and courtesy. You should know that a woman's melting point is when treated with utmost respect. Be a gentleman and make her feel extra special. Forget all trace of rudeness. Act properly around her. Be knowledgeable about women's stuff such as fashion, jewelries, and bags.

Just know something about these things. No need to memorize the entire magazine or whatever; just enough to make a conversation.

Besides fashion, also be informed about current issues. Try to know a little of everything and you will sure make an impression.

What Time Is It?

Every time you go out on a date, always be on time. Tardiness is a big turn off. Also, women have the tendency to think of the worst. When you are late, many things may run on her pretty head. She may think you are not really interested and excited on going out with her, or may think of you as unreliable.

However, if you agreed to pick her at her place, do not be too early. Give her ample time to finish dressing up. You may arrive with five minutes allowance prior to schedule.

Furthermore, do not forget to throw neat remarks on your date. Women love this. Just make sure that you mean it and that it is not offensive or too much so as not to annoy or irritate her.

Have a two-way conversation. Do not steal all the limelight with the intention of impressing her. Listen to her story as well. You ask questions in order for you to know her more.

Being a good conversationalist also means being a really good listener. As much as you want her to listen to your story, she also wants the same from you. She too has a story to tell, so listen to her. Do not be selfish and talk only about yourself. Hear her voice and know what she wants to say.

Who Pays What?

It is an unspoken rule that guys should pay the date. But in today's time, more and more women have become independent and want to take liability on their share of the date. If you date such woman, you may argue with her about it. If she agrees to let you pay, then do so. But if not, at least shoulder half of the whole bill.

To kiss or not to kiss; be careful with this. Most girls do not agree with kissing on the first date, even goodnight kisses. Pay attention to any signal she may be throwing at you, for there are also women who will be disappointed when not kissed.

To find out if she wants to be kissed or not, read her gestures. Or, wait if she will initiate.

Do not forget to ask her number if you wish to go out with her again. But if not, then do not promise anything so she will not be living with false hopes. Be a gentleman though and thank her for the time she spent with you. On the other hand, if you aspire to see her again, see to it that she knows.

Dating is an exciting affair. It leads to several possibilities with no certainties. But if you do it right, with the help of these dating tips, you are most likely to end up with a happy and gratifying dating experience.

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