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How to Attract A Female: The Very Best Techniques

By Chase Chandler


Touching/physical contact is an absolutely vital component of seduction. You cant successfully pick-up a girl without first establishing a basic level of mutual tactility. And that right there is where the problem for many men lies: how can a guy get the ball rolling when it comes to tactility and physical closeness? If the girls not being tactile, how can a guy develop mutual physical closeness without freaking her out or scaring her away?

Too many times men just go at it and end up freaking the girl out. A too aggressive attempt to physical closeness will not fair well with girls.

Other men decide they dont want to risk putting a girl off, so hold back any kind of touching or bodily contact " doing so usually sends out the wrong message, that the guy is either not interested in the girl, or that hes simply too timid to show it, neither of which are attractive scenarios in the mind of a good-looking, fun-loving girl. Okay, so whats the solution to this awkward problem?

There are a few rules to follow so that you don't appear too aggressive for your own good. The idea is to know the boundaries of most girls while projecting that you are a confident man who is genuinely interested with girls. With these rules, you can get away with a relaxed physical contact. Here is how to proceed.

1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.

By touching the outside of her arms, you are merely being casual and you are not crossing the boundary towards over aggressiveness. Tapping or touching the outside of her arms will be effective in giving a clear signal that you are fond of her and you are interested--nothing more. Do this and see the results.

2. Once youve started a conversation with a girl, or when you randomly find yourself chatting to a woman you really like the look of, its important to keep up the physical contact. Doing so helps maintain the bond and rapport youve already created and also helps build it further, into mutually felt sexual attraction. You can use something called Stealth Tactility to do this.

What stealth tactility involves is some degree of casual physical contact, which is disguised, so that you get away with it while heightening your bond with each other. Like when both of you are in a bar, and she asks for directions, you can easily put your hand on her shoulder and keeping her body close to yours, while you show her the way.

3. Last but not least, is to end a conversation with a kiss or a hug. Ending it this way will ensure a more lasting impression as you bid each other farewell. When you finally have to leave, why not give her a casual kiss on the cheek?

It is indeed an accomplishment already if you have secured for yourself a second date. True, you can easily rest on your laurels and wait for that second event. But to really leave a lasting mark on her mind, play some psychology a little. You can do this by leaving her with a sweet kiss, or a warm hug. Doing this will plant subconscious thoughts inside her mind. She will definitely keep thinking about you until you meet again for that second date.




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Rednecks And Their Family Ways

By Pete Phaedrus


Over 100 years ago, rednecks were poor, southern white men who worked outside on farms and in the fields. They would get sun burnt day after day and the redness of their necks is what led the their nicknames. The term "redneck" was accepted as a description of a class of people and the word was even used to rally that class of people together.

If you fast forward to present day, the name has taken a slightly different meaning. Whereas it used to refer to poor southern workers, it now is commonly used to describe people who live without a care towards how others view their lifestyle or to describe a person who still harbors racist beliefs. The description does not necessarily have anything to to with a particular job, but the way a person acts, speaks, dresses and lives.

The perfect example would be a young man whose first kiss was with his second cousin. He lives on his grandmother's property in an old travel trailer that has aluminum foil in place of drapes. A deck surrounds the trailer and is used as his living room with a couch, television and recliner. Two old beer kegs and a piece of plywood serve as the coffee table and old Christmas lights are used to see at night. The lawn has never been mowed and he has three cars parked on the other side of the driveway, none of them run.

When it comes to entertainment, it is a wonder that the Redneck Olympics has not been developed. It would most likely include beer related completions such as; beer drinking, belching and the "biggest beer belly". There would be a dirtiest overalls competition, junkiest car contest as well as spitting, farting and arm pit farting matches. The main event would encompass mud diving, mud wrestling and of course, derby cars.

These days, many people take pride in the terminology and lifestyle. The people who actually fit into the definition and meet the criteria, tend to have no idea. People throw themed parties with themed party decor. They purchase themed art work and have even borrowed several games and trends from the redneck lifestyle.

Rednecks live inventive lifestyles. They turn buses into homes, trucks into swimming pools, suburbans into limousines, toilet lids into horseshoes and camouflage into wedding gowns. It seems as if they can find something fun at every turn and don't particularly care what they look like when they are doing it, as long as it feels good to them.




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Pros and Cons of Matching Wedding Bands

By Avery Brown


Do wedding bands have to match? Yes and no. While some etiquette indicates that wedding bands should at least have some basic identifying traits in common (like color, metal type, or shape), the practice of both spouses wearing wedding bands at all has only been widespread in Western culture since the 1940s. The most imporant thing is, of course, to find wedding bands each of you will be happy wearing, and if finding rings that match or complement one another is part of that for you, these guidelines may help.

The simplest approach to choosing matching wedding bands is to simply get rings that are actually identical. With every design from plain gold bands to laser-etched Celtic knots rings in modern metals available, choosing identical matching rings that reflects your tastes as a couple is a simple prospect.

Alternately, and more commonly seen, is the practice of pairing wedding bands with some key traits in common such as metal type or design, but presenting differently scaled widths and other slight variations for each.

If costs are a concern, as they so often are when planning a wedding, a strong, good quality cheap wedding set in tungsten carbide is a particularly solid choice. Rings in this material are attractive and affordable, and they hold up extremely well. Buying them in pairs makes these styles even more budget friendly.

Some other wedding band traditions you may or may not wish to observe include the practice of each member of the couple paying for the other's ring, and for the respective rings to be given to the best man and maid of honor for safe keeping until the rings are exchanged during the ceremony.

The selection of matching wedding bands can be a pleasant process even for those "opposites attract" type couples, as making decisions together is something the two of you will be doing a lot of from now on and coming to an agreement on wedding rings is a romantic, meaningful, and fun way to get started.




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Choosing The Best Concealer To Use

By Leah Dalton


Concealers and foundations are two different products with two different functions. Foundation is generally used smoothen you face skin hence applied throughout the face while concealers are used to conceal bad spot in your face like black eyes and bruises.

Hence, concealers are only applied to the area or areas where you want to conceal something. Both are external products which can be used in the skin and should not be used together. If you want to look prettier with even face skin texture, foundation is ideal to use.

To hide your pimples you need a concealer but it does not mean you can just pick up any type without investigations or without considering if they really do the job. Your skin color and the concealer's color must be well coordinated. Below are some of the tips for you to get the right concealer for your skin.

Your concealer's shade should be on the lighter side of your skin. Application of a very different shade of concealer from your skin tone won't conceal your black spots but rather it makes them more noticeable.

In deciding what concealer to buy, you have to consider the type of concealer and the color of blemishes you want to mask. Dark imperfections like birth marks are well concealed if you use the liquid or creamy type while for less pronounced spots, you can use the powder type.

Yellow color is the ideal and versatile shade for concealers. Other colors normally don't work well with any type of skin. These colors can even result to more pronounced imperfection in your face.

To try several products available is advisable to compare which one suits you. Or better ask for some hints from people who know more about it.

To make yourself more attractive with a perfect and flawless skin, choose the product that suits you best.




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Ways to move forward after a break up

By Steve Steiner


Breaking up can be one of the worst experiences of your life, especially if you were the one who was cast aside.Starting your life in a fresh mode can be hard to do after a break up.What makes a person be in love one minute and then the complete opposite the next?

Here are few useful tips to help you get on with your life if you are certain that your partnership is over and there's no way to get it back on track:

Dispose of Everything That Reminds You of Your Ex.

Remove all reminders from your life or her like photos and things she has given you over the years.It's pretty common for many people to find it too tough to chuck things out right now.While you are in the healing process you should at least store the items out of sight and therefore out of mind if you can't get rid of them just yet.

If you find anything that is left at yours then either send them by post to her or have someone you can rely on to give them to her.Ensure that you get someone else to drop the things off and don't do it yourself as seeing her could trigger off those feelings again.

Release Your Emotions Regarding the Relationship.

Men shouldn't really cry over a woman, some people will always try to let you know.They are talking rubbish really.You have just gone through a painful experience and it's natural to show feelings of depression.Make some time to be on your own and deal with emotions you may be feeling like sadness or anger.

Bottling up your feelings will only serve to cause issues later on when they come out.Emotions should be released as soon as you can in order to get on with things and begin your new life as a single person again.

Get More Social Again.

It's not unusual for friendships to struggle when you are in a relationship.If you haven't contacted friends in a bit then now is a great moment to find them again and spend some time with them.

It's very handy to have friends you can rely on when you are feeling sad about the situation.It's great to meet up with an old friend you haven't seen in ages and remember the good times from the past.Having fun with friends can help you to stop thinking about the break up and get on with things.

Reaching out and seeing your friends again is important and should not be taken lightly.If you're feeling depressed or all alone then a friend is great to help you have fun again.

Breaking up is hard and you should follow these tips to help you cope with it.Ensure that you open up, throw away any items that your ex has given you and get help and advice from friends.Break ups can be very difficult, but remember that over time your wounds will heal.




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Women Like You by Becoming a Solid Guy

By Mike Morton


Trying to impress a girl you just met is like going on an adventure for the first time. You don't really know what to expect until you get there. this shouldn't discourage you though. Women, though distinct from one another, still have some things in common. Here are some ways to help you flex your charms on the girl of your dreams. Or, at the very least, help you become attractive to women.

Whatever impression you wish to make, stay true to yourself. Don't fake your personality. Don't assume someone else's too. Let your best traits shine. The last thing you want to happen is to pretend to be someone else you're not, and make the mistake of making her fall for a different you. So stay true to yourself.

You shouldn't need to be reminded that maintaining clean personal hygiene at all times is a must. Make sure that you shower and keep yourself tidy and properly dressed when you go out on a date or when meeting up with her. The way you look, plus the way you carry yourself, says a lot about you.

Knock her off her feet with your gentlemanly ways. Never let her pay for your meal, even when she insists. Always be courteous, even to waiters and doormen. Be as chivalrous as possible; drive her home, and make sure she gets home safely.

Constant conversations with her usually leaves you with a bunch of telltale signs to work on. These hints ought to suggest which subjects she can freely talk about where you can prod her into talking some more. Likewise, it should also give you an idea if she gets uneasy about a certain topic you're discussing.

Sometimes a connection is all that it takes. When you find out that that you have things in common, then it's a good start. Impress her with what you know. Keep abreast on what's happening in your part of the world. Talk about music, movies, hobbies.

At the end of the day, see her safely home. Open the door for her when she gets out of the car when you're driving her home, or see her to the door if you're walking. Women still appreciate gentlemanly gestures at this day and age.

At the end of it all, it doesn't matter if you have different interests. She couldn't care less if your fashion sense doesn't match or if she's a vegetarian and you're not, so long as you show who you really are. Being sincere and truthful about feelings will make surely make her fall for you.




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How To Date An Office Mate

By Zachary Bennet


By all means, single people will find themselves under the pressure to find a date. They may be too much engrossed with daily activities such as job etc...that finding the time becomes difficult. This not withstanding, there is always a way into finding your date.

Many people have found their soul mates at their work places. Work mates can still date despite the fact that it can be faced with many work related challenges.

Dating a work mate can be enjoyable if both of you are mature enough to handle whatever may be work related challenges. For a change you may extend your net to other companies associated with yours.

The neighborhood-Make yourself acquainted with your neighborhood by attending some if not all of the activities organized within. This will increase your socializing scope since you will meet different people in the process. In the process you may meet your soul mate and ask her for a date.

Think of the clubs too. If you have an activity which interests you, it is a good idea to become a member in the same. It could be the bowling club or the nature club etc. This will create an opportunity to meet new people and make new friends.

Chances are that in the clubs you will meet different single young people who may be on the search mission as you are. Your search mission will be worthwhile if you meet the dream of your heart in this place.

Another choice for a date is the Dating services. All you will just sign up and post your profile and make it available for all to view. This way you have a chance of meeting your soul mate. Some agencies are known to link their members based on their profile information.

You will be able to attract as many people with interest in you if you maintain an open mind and try changing your general perspective on life. Many young people will be attracted to be with you even though date is not your aim at that moment.




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